This is a hometown edition of Got Game?
For those of you following, I have been loathe to officially call myself a PUA (you know).
Today/tonight/this morning, I am a PUA.
Stats are climbing like you would not believe.
I am predicting New Year’s eve dual induction.
You know what that means.
A recalibration is necessary, I am not attracting the kind of woman that is worth being in a relationship with.
The whole point of this experience was to gain a confidence to meet women that would normally have been inaccessible. Unfortunately, 80% of these women are crazy deceptive.
To me this means I am doing something wrong.
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Today I had a profound experience - I was on a (free) teleconference with Neil Strauss aka Style. He fielded questions (field reports) from the audience. To answer your question in advance: we were muted unless selected in queue to answer a question.
My question did not make it to the front of the line in the 2 hour teleconference.
This was to be my question…
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This is confusing and dangerous. But very interesting. The stuff about anchoring is really strange.
For reasons that were certainly more sad than happy I ended up in New York City this weekend. And although having the circumstances of my arrival different, it has been nice to see friends and family.
I’ve been told that my posts are too long, so I’ll get to the point.
I was sarged by a girl at a bar - who was so interesting I told a couple of points that I like to use to control conversation. Mainly, creating a vaccuum and rewarding my convo-partner when they fill it. Giving the business examples (she is an entrepreneur) I made a case for the very simple two-person exchange.
So, we’re talking about social dynamics and group theory (socially, not mathematically) and at one point she asks me: Do you use NLP.
My brain exploded.
NLP stands for neuro linguistic programming, and is borderline hypnosis; primarily pattern recognition/breaking.
I don’t use NLP.
My stride was broken and I answered (honestly) no.
Do you?
She said yes.
Then she pointed out the four or five things we were doing in tandem: mirrored sitting positions, etc…
Unbelievable.
Love,
EATS
Had a date tonight, this time I was the one who was asked out.
Kiss closed. Looking forward to a second.
I have seen the matrix. I am about amonth away from PUA status.
On a side note, I hate my life, everything I’ve become and everywhere I think I might be going.
EATS
As you know, the only way to get around the rejection from a girl is to date five at the same time…
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Hi Everyone, Eats here …
It has come to my attention, privately, that there are some women out there who are incensed by my methods.
To those women, I request that you please chime in. I’d love to hear your thoughts.
If your name starts and ends with an “A,” I’m talking to you.
So “Gillian” called me back. Almost thirty minutes (exactly) after I erased her number from my cell phone.
We chit-chatted a bit and then came the below interaction. Editor’s (me) notes preceeded by “Ed.”
GILLIAN: I need to talk to you, about us.
Ed. This can’t be good.
ME: Okay.
GILLIAN: Oh, this is hard to say. I really liked our time together, but I didn’t feel anything romantic between us during our date.
Ed. At what point didn’t you feel that? The eye contact, great conversation, the long kiss? When?
I play it cool. And I also let a vaccuum form so she has to get out all her pre-planned stuff.
GILLIAN (cont): I had a really good time and I would like to get to know you and be friends.
Ed. I say nothing.
GILLIAN (cont): Hello?
ME: I’m still here.
Ed. She goes on about being friends and reiterates her point. Now, I am not one for canned material, but I do have a response for that. Here it is…
ME: Well, the word friend and the concept of friendship is really important. I think in situations like this “being friends” is a concilatory offering. Being polite.
GILLIAN: (On the defensive) I didn’t mean it like that, I just think you’re cool and I would like to be your friend.
ME: I’ll make you a deal. If you still feel - in a month - that you want to get to know me, dial my 10 numbers.
GILLIAN: Okay, that sounds good, I’ll call you in a month.
ME: Great. Okay, I need to get back to my writing.
GILLIAN: Okay.
ME: Take care Gillian.
GILLIAN: Bye.
ME: Bye.
Ed. I wouldn’t have played this scenario any different way. But it was disappointing that it turned out the way it did. If you had asked me how it would turn out, I would not have guessed this. However, I have to admire someone calling after a first date to reject the person they went out with.
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From my posting recouting last weekend’s activity, I mentioned number closing a girl named “Gillian.”
Here is my assessment of tonight’s date with “Gillian.”
This girl is amazing. She is well-spoken, thoughtful, attractive, tough. She’s also 21 and in college.
Although I read her pretty dead-on, there were certain impossibilities to penetrate. Whether or not someone says they are “open as a book” the truth (or fact) may prove otherwise.
At the end of the evening, as we left the bar - searching for separate cabs, while she was talking about something (to be honest, I was only thinking of the following) I grabbed her and kissed her. It was really nice, and soft and we were both a part of it.
Her comment, “It took you long enough to get up the nerve.”
My mind exploded.
Thankfully, I’m witty enough to hold my own and I came back with something that made sense. More thankfully, a cab came so I wouldn’t have to talk any more. We kissed again goodbye. She said, “see you soon.”
I said, “Will I?”
She said, “Maybe.”
I’ve got nothing.
Earlier in the evening I asked her to rate herself as a kisser and she said 9, then 8.
On my way home, I sent her a text that said, “I give it an 8.5 rating.”
This is what I got back: “Funny, cuz that was nothing.”
Genius. I was (and am) speechless.
There’s no text message I could send back that would enhance the situation. Fighting every instinct in my system to retort, I am going to give her the last word. For now, at least. Should I? … huge debate.
I am not sending her a text back. The plan is to call her tomorrow.
Girls, you have it easy. All you have to do is be mean and guys will follow you anywhere.
Smooches,
Eats
