accidental feminist

 

I give this test to all my girlfriends… March 17, 2006

Filed under: Got Game? — Eats @ 11:03 am

If you score higher than 28, I salute you.

http://intelligence-test.net/part1/

 
 

No Spectators February 7, 2006

Filed under: Got Game? — Eats @ 2:08 pm

Dear Spike & Warrior4Life,

It’s time for you to start some original posts on your own.

Accidental Feminist, if I’m overstepping my bounds, I apologize.

Eats craves original content from these two giants.

 
 

Overweight February 3, 2006

Filed under: Got Game? — Eats @ 9:53 pm

Monday is a momentous day in Eats’ schedule - DAY 1 of training.

My body composition in the spring/summer months is much different than fall/winter. Tom Demerly of Bike Sport Michigan (bikesportmichigan [dot] com) alikens the body transformation after the holidays to “coming out of a tunnel.”

Right now I feel pale, puffy and like I’m wearing a suit made of myself. Low self-body-image. Whenever I hear from a woman that “men don’t get low self-body-image” I have to squint and bite my lip to reign my thoughts.
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seduction liar crybabies February 1, 2006

Filed under: Got Game? — Rachel @ 10:50 am

I was recently talking to someone about my debacle at Thundercat’s Seduction Lair. Why did they all resent me so much? Suddenly, a metaphor popped into my head. “Game” is like poker. If you have a good hand, you’re confident and no one can frazzle you. But if you’re dealt a crap hand in life (like these guys), you either become a 40-year-old Dungeon Master, or learn how to bluff. So the PUAs learn how to bluff. By definition they don’ t have good hands, or they wouldn’t need to perfect their poker face.

So there I go, Miss Over-Analytical; I walk into their “Boys Only” poker game, and walk around the table and start calling their hands. They hate this, because they’ve been convinced that “the Game” has nothing to do with the cards they’re holding. And it may not, but no one likes to hear that they have a bad hand. And maybe that’s a lesson I can take away: People don’t like their neuroces handed to them on a silver platter.

 
 

Back from where? January 25, 2006

Filed under: Got Game? — Eats @ 3:36 am

Hi Spike, thanks for the shout out in your comment. Accidental Feminist ha sbeen doign an amazing job - and there could never be too many of her smiling faces on the site.

There are a couple of points worth noting, stretching from the beginning of the month to now.
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Two elements for success January 9, 2006

Filed under: Got Game? — Eats @ 11:26 pm

Although I am retired, I did come out my pre-fab house for a few moments today. For those of you who remember way-back-from-whence there was a married woman who I was corresponding with.

I met her today and in the course of about twenty minutes, I made her cry and admit she wasn’t happy in her marriage.
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that was quick January 4, 2006

Filed under: Got Game? — Rachel @ 5:56 pm

Well, it took me exactly one day to alienate Ross Jeffries, one of the founders of the PUA movement. I’m not sure what I did to deserve the “freeze out”, but I’m going to respect his wishes. But now that our association is over, I will link to our conversation thread from Thundercat’s Seduction Lair on this here blog (I’m not around until comment #93, so scroll down a bit if you’re not interested in hearing PUA in-fighting). It’s a shame, too, because I was going to get to do an interview with him about writing “They Still Call Me Bruce”…

 
 

Done January 3, 2006

Filed under: Got Game? — Eats @ 1:48 am

Hi everyone, EATS here.

I’m done being a PUA. My neuroses are running too high. I am afraid of STDs, pregnancies, and the like. Maybe for good reason, maybe for accidental reason.

The lifestyle doesn’t suit the fears I already have. Neil Strauss wrote about his fears about sexually transmitted everythings.

Done. Seriously. Done.

 
 

Speed game December 30, 2005

Filed under: Got Game? — Eats @ 5:07 am

Spent an evening attending several in-hours and after-hours hotspots. Since I had already expressed my PUA status to some friends, I was under the gun.
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NLP or BBC? December 26, 2005

Filed under: Got Game? — Rachel @ 11:29 pm

Check this out. Yosef says it explains why it’s so easy to pick up chicks at Great America (not that he would know).